CIP

Shaunti Feldhahn is a Harvard graduate in analytics who has done excellent work regarding the difference between men and women when it comes to relationships and sexual feelings.  CIP highly recommends her videos and books.  Several of her videos can be viewed on YouTube.

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One comment of critique:  We are three dimensional creatures.  We are physical, psychological, and spiritual.  A Christian needs to know as much as possible in all three areas of life.  Feldhahn's work will be a big help to you in the psychological aspects of the relationships between men and women.  However, you must combine her teachings with the Spiritual knowledge of the Old and New Man to get the full benefit of what she is saying.  The Old Man will take any teaching and subconsiously manipulate it back into a way to gain power in a relationship.  Combine the surrender of the Old Man to God for co-crucifiction with Christ (Galations 2:20) with the knowledge in Feldhahn's teachings and you have a mixture which can truly transform a marriage.  But both the husband and wife must be interested in Spiritual depth for this to work over the long run.  The Holy Spirit must take this truth and integrate it into the New Man for the greatest impact on your marriage.